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We all know that special feeling you get when you find someone you immediately connect with, that your intensely attracted to, that you can't wait to see, to spend time with, to share, to kiss, to fall in love.
That is what I am looking for!!!
Let's face the facts, this is not something that happens over a few emails, this is something that will take time. Anything worth having is worth waiting for, A house can't be built if the foundation was rushed and not built correctly.
There is a saying that is " behind every good man there is a great woman ". I do want a great woman but the issue I have with that saying is that I don't want you behind me I want a you by my side as an equal/partner that I can count and trust with my heart and my life. Without ever having to second guess the trust and love that has been built between us.
I do have a business that will be taking most of my time this spring and summer, my intention is not to be a pen pal. I will be returning to China this fall, I know this sounds kind of like a long time but my thought was if I found the right person, that I we could meet at that point and go from there. That way we would have time to get to know each other before meeting and not having to be forced to make any decisions that affect our life's based on how a weekend encounter goes. Love should be based on more than just that. But you never do know because it is always possible that I could find some time before that to slip away and meet you.
Additional qualities that would be good to have in a partner but not a must. Would be for someone that has some business, marketing, management, sales or at least wants to be a partner in work and in life. I do intend on expanding the business into Europe and I feel with the right person we could grow the business along with our love and personal connection between us. If we could do this together the we could have experiences together that only very few could only ever imagine.
I have spent some time reading and studying about love and relationships, in hopes that my next relationship will be my last one. Through one of my favorite books I read , I found out that there are five different language of love and how important it is to find out what is your main language but more importantly finding out what your partners main language. Maybe someday we will be able to have that conservation and learn more about each other.
It is not how much love you have that counts when two people first meet but it is how much love they are able to build together over time is what counts. I believe in this and it is simply not something that can be rushed.
If you
agree with me let me know 😃
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