I'm an american who has lived in Europe for over a decade now, and experienced a variety of cultures and careers. My work in life has been about the art of expression in one form or another...as a writer, as an advocate, as a performer, as a consultant. My own personal expression tends to vary from to intense to thoughtful to silly to enthusiastic, in no particular order... My way of relating to women is as equals in every way. I'm a fairly bright and capable guy, but I very much like people who know things I don't know and who can do things I can't do. So, I like a woman who proves me wrong on some things, who can do some things better than I can, without looking at life as some sort of competition but as a sharing of contributions. The kind of couples I really admire share things they love with each other, like poetry and music and insights. . . And, at this point in life...what I am really looking for is someone who is interested in having and raising a family, the more the merrier. That is what I'd like the rest of my life to be about. . .

If you are right for me, you are probably slim, sweet, and soulful. You may have an artistic or expressive career, but you surely sensitive, kind to people whether they are well off or not, and generous. You're probably more calm and stable than I am, for balance, but no less capable of enjoying crazy times. Hopefully you're more sociable in general than I am, again for the sake of balance, but your life is not about parties and nightlife. You want to live a meaningful life, although sometimes you may not be sure what that meaning is. You're not so much here looking for what you can get for yourself, but for someone with whom you can be more loving in your life, with him and with the children you have together. And finding the right man will not be a limitation for you, it will liberate you to live more fully than ever before...