I am not the prince on the white horse, I am not pretending to be the strong, powerful and confident man many women on this site are looking for. I am more the frog or toad in the deep and dark well.
So if you are real princes (for me – in my eyes) who lost her golden ball, because you did not play carefully, I will bring your golden ball back to you for a kiss. And if you are a real princess this kiss will turn me into the king I have been before, before this witch put a spell on me and turned me into this frog/toad.
I will travel many thousand km to have a cup of coffee with the right lady.
Just a cup of coffee together, not more not less, no strings attached. That's all I want from you.
After that we see. We start writing letters and when think its time you tell me and I will come.


Young at heart and physical state as an 48 year old man (according to a examination test) I wonder if there is some one who can neglect my age and see me as the young soul at mind and heart I have been ever since I remember. Ever since I remember I was looking for love, but I still have not found what I am looking for. I found it once, but at that time I did not dare to take it. I was afraid and my social situation could not allow it. Since that I know how it feels and what it is like. I still can feel the kiss a was too afraid to give. Now I know when I see it and I will recognize it, I will feel it and I will dare. I am not this young man anymore (afraid of the burning love) I was before. On the other hand I know there must be a situation where love and friendship can emerge and grow. I am aware about that. Several times I created this kind of situation where it could happen, but it did not, so I went on. I did not give up immediately, I was patient. First time I waited for four years, second time I waited seven years, third time I waited twenty years and that time it did not work any longer for the lady – this was very painful for me as the lady broke up like a little girl. Last time I waited two years. Now I cannot wait an other twenty years. So I will choose more carefully. And I will not let me influence by a good look, a nice looking body, sexy photo-shop pictures and
ALL THIS EMPTY PROMISES OF ETERNAL LOVE AND HAPPYNESS BEFORE THE LADY EVEN MET ME.
Promises of love before they even met me are empty promises.
It is not so that I am not romantic, in the contrary I am very romantic and emotional, but this romantic emotions many times led me wrong and caused me a lot of pain (and money). So I learned to be realistic too. I learned that if you start from a wrong position there is no way – there is no future.

You know, love is the child of freedom. I offer you friendship to begin with, then in my fantasy maybe you become more. Then I am willing to find out what is fantasy and what is reality. We drink a cup of coffee and we see, feel, think, act.You can accept the idea to start with friendship. You can accept the idea to take a risk and start with a situation where love and friendship can grow.
If you are not independent (in case you come to a new country) you have to accept support with the goal to become independent.
After our meeting we stay friends or we explore the man-woman relation.
If you can agree with that we can start with our conversation as friends and looking forward to have a cup of coffee soon.