Hi! I’m probably not your match. Some weird accident of genetics produced a bizarre combination of qualities that don’t normally go together. Examples: Nuclear Physicist who has done women’s fashion consulting in New York and dressed many women.. (And OK undressed a few as well). A college educator who was a member of the Arts, Engineering and Business faculties teaching subjects as diverse as Psychology, Statistics, Computers and Business Policy and Strategy. A history, politics and world affairs arts and culture buff who builds houses and does every construction trade personally and restores historic buildings. A person who is at home in my tux, Bonnie Prince Charlie vest and kilt, business attire with flair or in paint stained jeans and beaten up shirt. One of 50 invited members of a UN initiated long range thinktank Academy, yet a passionate interpretive high energy dancer yet enjoys the tranquillity of a canoe. Has designed and sold computer systems yet can’t figure out a VCR. A managing partner of the Toronto office of a major management consulting firm specializing in turn arounds who has fired many people yet often met with the families of the terminated folks to help them understand and adjust. Like most men, thick as a brick some of the time yet extremely intuitive and a breakthrough relationship counsellor when tuned in. Can be focussed intense and move mountains but normally laid back and meandering. Can be deeply involved yet also able to step outside a situation and perceive the agendas and rationale for what is happening. Known as a classy, renaissance gentleman, non judgmental, futurist, risk taker, principled, independent analytical thinker who lives outside the box and doesn’t understand a glass being anything other than overflowing yet who is emotionally intelligent and tunes into peoples emotions and being. I bore many because of my breadth, depth and passion of communications, irritate some and, I am told, apparently intimidate some insecure folks because of my free thinking intellect and independence. I am an animated and passionate conversationalist with folks who like considering things in depth who find me fascinating (the VERY few) but am not a networker nor comfortable in cocktail parties etc as I am shy by nature (really) and am useless at small talk. In a sense I am a misfit although only I see that.
Known as brilliant (they obviously don’t know some of the dumb things I have done) , wise, highly intuitive and thoughtful, easy to be with, fun and (despite the above partial list of my absurdly odd set of qualities) not full of myself... but instead very empathetic, and considerate and, most surprisingly of all the unexpected , remarkably adept at taking a lady to heights of sexual satisfaction never previously experienced. It makes no sense and would be almost funny if it were fiction.. But it isn’t..

You?

You are certainly NOT average, boring, colourless, unadventurous or a bystander in life following the beaten paths but rather can relish and participate in my nature and, like me, are curious by nature, classy with verve and flair and breadth and depth. You embrace life and see it as an adventure to be embraced.

Hopefully you are fun, non conformist, have a sense of fashion, classy, highly intelligent and curious about people, the world, places, world affairs and care about making a difference in the world and love discussing and learning and are a free thinker and can be playful and even goofy at times. You have FUN and are uninhibited.

You are not driven by money but by adventure and fredom.

Secure in yourself. You love yourself and regard yourself as loveable and worthy of being loved. You probably have been to hell and back at least once in your life and instead of joining the ranks of the worlds walking wounded or walking dead have triumphed and have that inner peace and glow that only seems to come through conquering the slings and arrows of traversing the pathways and detours of life. Instead of self pity, blaming events or others, or bitterness ... Have gained perspective and revel in life’s opportunities

You can rejoice in your magnificence and celebrate your uniqueness (not arrogant of course as that arises from lack of self esteem).. Folks comfortable within themselves have no desire to impress.. They don’t need to.. Their being, nature and deeds says it all

Ideally you have finally achieved what I consider to be the pinnacle of our species.... A truly authentic human being. The truly great people often go unnoticed or unfeted . You don’t seek the limelight, You don’t have to nor feel the need.

You may come from any spectrum but are probably a very rare set of a broad range of characteristics. This is a bit dangerous to put in this profile as we rarely think through and realize how unusual we are. Put differently you probably find that almost noone gets you,, in the sense that various folks understand, adore and relate to different aspects of you but you wish to God that you could encounter some one person would get you in your entirely and appreciate and intuitively understand the total you... And hopefully love and appreciate and participate in it all.

You are probably a respected role model and mentor to many (although you probably don’t know it). You may be very popular with coworkers and perhaps friends, family and acquaintances yet at the same time very lonely deeply within your soul .. even when in a relationship or around family.

You have taken the time to get in touch with and understand your own soul so that you can determine what would be a suitable soul to mate with yours.

While I could define the probable compatible partner in crime for me further I think my description of myself should be a good guide as to compatibility, passions, interests, brains and nature.

And hopefully you love to make love and don`t hold back but can relax , have fun and allow yourself to experience intensity of pleasure never before even thought possible.

And you could not only put up with the likes of the strange bird that is me .. But actually love it, and me and fly free and unfettered in the process !

Perhaps an impossible dream.. But I await in hope.